Thursday, September 24, 2009

Keepers and Leavers List

As of this week, I have been living in Ukraine for one year. It's amazing how quickly time flies! I have had so many adventures and challenges along the way...

I have also appreciated this time on my own - especially to have the chance to reflect and find a more balanced perspective on life. There are many lessons and ideas I will bring back to the United States with me, and some things that I will be thankful to leave behind. Here is a list of some of those things that have made a strong impression on me:

Keepers from Ukraine (in no particular order):

  • Relationships with other Peace Corps volunteers

  • Pausing for an impromtu tea break with others

  • Interesting chats with taxi drivers, especially Vacya

  • Empathy and compassion for language learners in a foreign country

  • Playing silly games with my students

  • Language skills in Surgic (Ukrainian and Russian languages mixed together)

  • Love for tomatoes (yum!)

  • Vkontakte (Russian version of Facebook)

  • Exceptional hospitality

  • Borshch (soup) with pampushkee (delicious garlic rolls)

  • Emphasis on personal relationships in the workplace

  • Patience while traveling

  • Dancing the night away at a disco club

  • Greetings from babushkas along my walking routes

  • Carrying a book wherever I go

  • My adult volleyball league

  • Comfort with and preference for public transportation

  • Love of slippers!

  • Travel opportunities throughout Europe and Africa

  • Love of European football (soccer)

  • Better understanding of technology (using a digital camera, blogging, Internet on my phone, Skyping, etc.)

  • Free vegetables each week from neighbors

  • Free facewash and floss

  • New outlook: a 15 hour drive (one way) to a friend's house is easy as pie to accomplish in a weekend

I'll be happy to leave behind:
  • Turkish-style toilets + paying to use them

  • Being stared at when I'm sitting on the floor or a cold bench

  • All of the sofa-sleepers for beds

  • Hot, stuffy, marshrutkas - where we're forbidden to roll down any windows

  • Square shaped pillows

  • The belief that a crossbreeze negatively impacts health

  • My students' worry about me not being married/having a boyfriend at age 25

  • Walking through streets without smiling

  • Schedule changes being the norm

  • Paying for the Internet by the megabyte

  • Not knowing the most efficient ways to travel

Living in a different culture requires so much more thinking! I'm never able to function in auto-pilot mode...but it's so rewarding at the same time. We'll see what this next year brings...

Peace,

Natalie

2 comments:

Sarah said...

Dear Natalie,

I would like to add YOU to my "keepers" list. Whadda ya say?

∆ Yes
∆ No

Thanks for sharing...it's a lovely reality-check for the hard times to remember all the good! And there really is so much good. :)

David X said...

Those "international" toilets are a sham... I saw one in Indonesia that proudly stated "American Standard" across the back of it, to which I boldly proclaimed "No it isn't!"

Those garlic things sound good tho... if you learn how to make them I'd love to try one!