Thursday, September 24, 2009

Keepers and Leavers List

As of this week, I have been living in Ukraine for one year. It's amazing how quickly time flies! I have had so many adventures and challenges along the way...

I have also appreciated this time on my own - especially to have the chance to reflect and find a more balanced perspective on life. There are many lessons and ideas I will bring back to the United States with me, and some things that I will be thankful to leave behind. Here is a list of some of those things that have made a strong impression on me:

Keepers from Ukraine (in no particular order):

  • Relationships with other Peace Corps volunteers

  • Pausing for an impromtu tea break with others

  • Interesting chats with taxi drivers, especially Vacya

  • Empathy and compassion for language learners in a foreign country

  • Playing silly games with my students

  • Language skills in Surgic (Ukrainian and Russian languages mixed together)

  • Love for tomatoes (yum!)

  • Vkontakte (Russian version of Facebook)

  • Exceptional hospitality

  • Borshch (soup) with pampushkee (delicious garlic rolls)

  • Emphasis on personal relationships in the workplace

  • Patience while traveling

  • Dancing the night away at a disco club

  • Greetings from babushkas along my walking routes

  • Carrying a book wherever I go

  • My adult volleyball league

  • Comfort with and preference for public transportation

  • Love of slippers!

  • Travel opportunities throughout Europe and Africa

  • Love of European football (soccer)

  • Better understanding of technology (using a digital camera, blogging, Internet on my phone, Skyping, etc.)

  • Free vegetables each week from neighbors

  • Free facewash and floss

  • New outlook: a 15 hour drive (one way) to a friend's house is easy as pie to accomplish in a weekend

I'll be happy to leave behind:
  • Turkish-style toilets + paying to use them

  • Being stared at when I'm sitting on the floor or a cold bench

  • All of the sofa-sleepers for beds

  • Hot, stuffy, marshrutkas - where we're forbidden to roll down any windows

  • Square shaped pillows

  • The belief that a crossbreeze negatively impacts health

  • My students' worry about me not being married/having a boyfriend at age 25

  • Walking through streets without smiling

  • Schedule changes being the norm

  • Paying for the Internet by the megabyte

  • Not knowing the most efficient ways to travel

Living in a different culture requires so much more thinking! I'm never able to function in auto-pilot mode...but it's so rewarding at the same time. We'll see what this next year brings...

Peace,

Natalie

Tuesday, September 15, 2009

Train Jumping from the Busy Weekend

My Tuesday morning started off by jumping out of a train. Really. You see, I was up in Kyiv for the day to attend a meeting (which I'll explain later). Because of my newfound appreciation for traveling by train, I boarded the 3:25pm Kyiv-Odessa train. However, I depend on the provodnik, the person whose sole responsibility it is to wake passengers up before their stop, give us bed sheets, and kindly open the door at each stop. No problem, I maintain extreme kindness, patience, and try not to have any problems along the way to annoy these workers.

Adapting from my last trip home, where I missed my stop because I was sleeping in the wrong seat and the provodnik did not wake me up, I set my alarm about 20 minutes before my estimated arrival time. Shortly after my alarm, a provodnik that I had not seen the entire trip (I think she was from a different boxcar) asked, "Who is getting off at Adabash?" Oh, that's me, I quickly replied before she awoke the loudly snoring, bare-chested man sharing my compartment. You're next, she said and quickly disappeared.

About twenty minutes later, after I folded my sheets and gathered my belongings, I made my way to the entranceway of the boxcar. The train slowed and I became nervous as I waited for the provodnik to come unlock the door for me. After all, the train only stops at my station for two minutes.

I waited about ten seconds and went to the providnik's room to ask for help. The provodnik that I had seen when I first entered the train was sound asleep. Excuse me, excuse me, I said quietly. No response. I said it louder. Still no response. I started to shake him and said, "Please, I need the door open! This is my stop!" I continued to shake him, he even opened his eyes once, but he never regained consciousness!

In the seats closest to me, there was a group of young teenagers who had been watching. I asked helplessly, "Please help me. This is my stop but he's sleeping - I only know a little Russian!" They looked at me like I was crazy and said, "I don't know what to do." By now, the two minutes had passed and I realized the train was pulling away from the station and picking up speed.

Then I saw my hero - the woman provodnik entered from the other end of the boxcar! I gave her a look of desperation and said, "Hurry, please!" She immediately ran to my side, unlocked the door, unhatched the stairs (which are attached to the train), and said, "Jump!" Which I did, from a train moving only about 20mph, but I landed on all fours in the gravel, and if only for that instant, pretended I was being filmed for a spy movie! Oooh, I love an adventure!

Now let me back up...

On Friday, I went to Kyiv for the day to attend a Grant Writing Workshop. It was extremely helpful to meet with other volunteers who had previously written a grant and then implemented the project. We were able to discuss grant ideas and better understand the different types of grants available to Peace Corps volunteers. After talking with teachers, students, and some parents, I have many ideas to improve my Novoukrainka community. However, today I will organize some rough outlines and within the next week, I will present to my colleagues at school and survey students to determine which projects are our priorities. I will certainly keep you updated and may ask for your support down the road. Please stay tuned....

On Saturday, I came back to my oblast and helped at the first round testing for the FLEX program (Future Leaders Exchange Program). Three of my students completed this test of basic English to qualify for Round 2 testing in order to spend one academic year studying in the United States. Two of my three students were able to participate in Round 2 on Sunday. This was exciting news because less than ten students out of eighty, who qualified for Round 2, were from the "village" schools... and we are from the village :). We had been preparing for these tests for weeks, so now we will wait about a month to see if they're able to move on to Round 3.

At 2am on Monday morning, I boarded a train to Kyiv for the second time in four days. This time, I attended a meeting regarding continuing professional development for volunteers throughout their service. We established a group of facilitators that will organize meetings with volunteers in their region to collaborate on professional development topics. I'm looking forward to organizing my first regional meeting within the next month. It was also great to see some of my closest friends at this meeting, albeit a short visit!

In other news - the mentor program is certainly taking shape! After establishing a core group of volunteers to serve on the "Leadership Team," we have successfully matched over sixty trainees, who are nearing their departure time, with current Peace Corps volunteers (definitely shows it is a need because the trainees must self-select into this program). Because it is the first round of matching, we will be looking to make many improvements to the program for the next group, but overall, I'm impressed with the volunteers' willingness to support this program and the trainees' interest.

The first weekend in September, I made my way to Eastern Ukraine for a friend's birthday gathering. It was a small group, which made it easier to manage and get to know each other.

We stopped at a small cafe on the main street in Lugansk. Here is a picture of Sarah and I:


We rented an apartment right off the main square. The two Natalies are pictured below (it was this Natalie's birthday party).


With Natalie and her boyfriend, Mike:



On our way back to the apartment, Mike, Evan, and I were stuck in a broken elevator for over thirty minutes with three Ukrainian girls. It started to get fairly hot and we were all frustrated. For the rest of the weekend, we certainly exercized by climbing the nine flights of stairs each way. I managed to snap this photo in the midst of the chaos:




The view from our balcony, overlooking the main square:



Chris, Sarah, and Drew enjoying the scenery. We had perfect weather!





Hare Krishna Festival, which is one of the Hindu religious organizations.


Of course, what weekend with friends is complete without going to a disco? Here are the girls: Sarah, me, and Natalie



Below is a picture of the entire group (I'm taking the picture): Chris, Natalie, Sarah, Evan, Drew, and Mike. We were at the disco from 11pm to almost 2am - and not more than ten people ever joined us. I asked the security guard if the club usually has more people, and he said, "it's a winter club." Whatever that means? We liked having the entire disco floor to ourselves and had a great time!

Thanks for reading and take care!
Peace,
Nat

Thursday, September 3, 2009

First Time for the "First Bell" (plus the launch of my modeling career)

Tuesday, September 1: First Bell Celebrations



The first of September marks the first day of school across Ukraine. Except, rather than having actual lessons, it is a day to celebrate the new academic year. We met in the Palace of Culture where we recognized students with achieved high grades last year, introduced new teachers (my school has two new teachers), awarded teachers for their work in methodology of teaching, and observed a concert. Believe it or not - I actually forgot to put the battery back in my camera, so I wasn't able to capture any memories at this event (but the event was extremely similar to all of the other school concerts I've attended in Ukraine).



Here's a picture of me with Olya (left) and Sasha (right). Olya is in the 11th grade (so it's her senior year), attends a different school, and is my neighbor. Her family has been so welcoming to me since I've lived in Novoukrainka! Sasha is now in 9th grade and I am very close with her family.



After the concert, our teachers hosted a retirement party for Vaila. We started the party at noon and I finally left after 6pm! I left with a full stomach and in need of a nap...




Vaila's retirement party even had traditional Ukrainian singers...




Here are some of the other English teachers (from left to right): Lena, Tania, Aloyna, and Lena


AND NOW - THE LAUNCH OF MY MODELING CAREER...

Between the Palace of Culture celebrations and Vaila's retirement party, Aloyna, Lena, and I went to the park to "make some photos" of ourselves. We had a good time and it certainly reminded me of those senior pictures that are in storage somewhere at Mom and Dad's...

Please Note: Lena and Aloyna took just as many "model" photos as I did (most likely even more), I just didn't post 'em.









Oh yeah, time for the serious face...












Ok, here are some random photos from a couple weeks ago...
Independence Day celebrations in Kyiv:




My bed on the train:



Looking down the hallway of one of the train boxcars:



I went to Yura's birthday party (Yura is in the blue shirt and is Sasha's dad).




A couple weeks ago, Lena and I attended an In-Service Training with Peace Corps in Kyiv. The training focused on how to plan and implement volunteer service projects, with particular emphasis on how to motivate and involve community members.



Last week there was a concert at the Palace of Culture to thank teachers for their work. Here are some short videos of the students dancing.



The first week of school went by fairly quickly for me! I met some of my new 4th graders - it will be fun to teach these students, and they seem so eager and excited to learn. However, they will definitely require more preparation on my part (especially visual support) for learning English.

After the first bell celebrations, a family waited outside to tell me about a new volleyball league! I was so excited to learn that there are a group of people who play INDOOR three times per week - and it's FREE! So, last night I went to my first game. There were six other men, but they seemed happy to let me join. After almost two hours of playing intense volleyball (I was digging so many hits...ahhhh!), they wanted to make sure I was planning on coming back. Yes, yes, I assured them. (Even though today I'm suffering... my back is stiff from hits and serving, I think I jammed my left wrist, and my right knee injury is flaring up again...remember, from the sledding accident last January. Oy Oy Oy...you'd think I was getting old or something...) Oh, but here is a picture of the indoor gym we played in:

Well, it's 7pm and I have a train to catch in fifty minutes! I also need to drop off an umbrella that a store clerk let me borrow because I didn't have an umbrella and I needed to walk home. We had never even met before, but she was so kind to let me use it! I'll be traveling to Lugansk, which is in Eastern Ukraine. It's a fifteen hour train ride, so wish me luck! I'm taking a book that has received great reviews from friends, my iPod, and some chocolate :).

Thanks for reading and take care!

Love Nat